(a poem)

Last night I had an amazing dream,
As if were flirting with a snowy stream.

A little angel, entered my tiny room,
Held in her hand, a beautiful broom.

Blessed with golden and curly hair,
Smile she had, very lovely and fair.

With blue eyes, looked very adorable,
Her awesome entry, very memorable.

Little doll was an angel of her kingdom,
Full of astounding courage and wisdom.

God sent her with a message of fraternity,
To preach lessons of equality and liberty.

I listened to her, with great reverence,
She taught, key to success is perseverance.

Demure by nature but expressions beautiful,
Her eloquent teaching, was lively and wonderful.

Every word she spoke, was full of zeal,
I was asleep, but every word I could feel.

Her preach, I felt effervescent and very bubbly,
Moments spent with her, very ebullient and lovely.

Before dawn, ended her preach and flew away,
Memories of her presence, suddenly blew away.

When I opened my eyes, my dream turned romany,
Stood before me, my little daughter named Himani.

By Kishan Negi

(Writer, Reader, Blogger)

To explore the beauty of nature,

 

My naughty mind and curious soul.

 

Flew high with halcyon mood,

 

Towards vast snowy north pole.

 

With sweet and amazing dreams,

 

And aiming at a ineffable goal.

 

Watching grey clouds stretching,

 

Playing the game of hide and seek.

 

With blend of zest and zeal feeling,

 

Jovial mission travelling at its peak.

 

Lost in rambling thoughts and dreams,

 

They kept flying to reach destination.

 

With enthusiasm and exuberance,

 

To win, had fervid and ardent inclination.

 

Yearningly winging up high in the sky,

 

Hovering over shining snowy mountain.

 

Had many a miles still to fly,

 

And Keeping every promises to sustain,

 

To eternalize the historic mission.

 

At last reached the north pole,

 

Witnessed the beauty of nature.

 

And savored the success of dream goal.

 

(Kishan Singh Negi)

Writer, Reader, Blogger

Is My Heart Wandering?

Posted: April 22, 2016 in Uncategorized

Sea is blue, calm and cool

And lovely but very deep,

I have miles to swim

Before I wish to sleep

To actualize ardent dreams

I have desires to keep

Before the dawn smiles

My heart begins to beep

Little love sparrow chirps

And flying high to peep

When the sun goes to set

My heartbeats begin to flip

wandering on sea-shore

Waiting for a love ship

Thoughts in heart yearning

For love to fall into deep

Sea waves sing love rhymes

Making my heart to sleep

Sea is blue, calm and cool

And lovely but very deep,

I have miles to swim

Before I wish to sleep

By Kishan Singh Negi

(Writer, Reader, Blogger, Thinker)

From the adventurous stories of successful people, this was discovered that their beginning started when they were “Mr. Nobody From Nowhere”, and completed the long journey of success from the scratch only. In the beginning of their dream journey, all of them were “MR. NOBODY FROM NOWHERE”, and henceforth transformed their dreams into “MR. EVERYBODY FROM EVERYWHERE”.  They prepared themselves to face every challenge and overcome all adverse circumstances. Notwithstanding, they reached where they actually deserved to be. When their dreams and burning desires were whirling around, they left no stone upturned in resuscitating their appetite for success.
This is scientifically proven that two kinds of people exist in the universe, successful and unsuccessful.

Those who have achieved what they wished are known as successful people, and those who failed to achieve what they wished, were unsuccessful.  After the analytic study of these two sections, it was discovered that both of them applied different principles of success to achieve their desired dreams. Successful people supplied their minds with positive approach and positive attitude, and applied them for achieving their goals, and became successful.  On the other hand, second category supplied their minds with negative thoughts to produce negative results, and were forced to face failures.

If you study the unsuccessful people, you will discover that they suffer from a typical disease excusitis. Furthermore, they have stock pile of excuses for not delivering desired results. The person who has gone nowhere and has no self-designed plans for getting nowhere always has bucketful of reasons to explain why. But the persons with mediocre accomplishments are in a better position to explain why. It has been experienced that unsuccessful persons have many excuses to easily fall prey to failures, but successful people never fall prey to failures rather failures fall prey to them. So, you must have many reasons to succeed, but not many excuses to fail.

Majority of people prefer to live in the shade of fear in order to avoid failures because they lack the confidence and power to face fear in every walk of their lives, and they sow the seeds of fear in their attitude and character.  As a result, they, like other people, tasted the fruits of failures. However, those who had courage to face the clouds of fear, ultimately became successful in their goals with the help of their confidence, determination and positive mindset. In this universe, no one is borne with confidence but everyone is borne to win. But to win the game, you have to build a structure of confidence in your belief and destroy the storm of fear from your mind.  Most successful people have been able to overcome their fears with their strong will and impregnable confidence. Intelligent efforts and prudent actions are the basic tools you have to learn from successful people to overcome the fears. Appropriate actions, supplied with strong will power and positive thinking, have been able to make the fear disappear from your life, and one day you become the king off your destiny.

The magic of thinking big has been a significant factor in the lives of successful people. The bigger is the thinking, the bigger is the achievement. They always use positive and favorable words and phrases for others, and it boosts their energy to think big.  Another key fact to remember is that great people are never measured with the size of their degrees, or by their social relations, they are measured by the size of their thinking. How big you think determines the size of your accomplishment. Many successful businessmen achieved wonders at a very young age because of their thinking big coupled with affirmative approach and positive attitude, not to mention its impact in the minds of others.

 When the most successful people started their success journey, they were “Nobody from nowhere” and later on they succeeded in transforming their destiny into “everybody from everywhere”. How were theirs, once impossible, dreams converted to reality?  Yes, they made it possible through their self-belief, burning desire and intelligent efforts. The important thing is not where you were or where you are, but where you wish to be.

Persons with awesome imagination and amazing creativity start from the scratch and reach the height of success by applying their reasoning and wisdom. They are always all agog while facing the challenges, and never indulge themselves in smearing campaign rather focus on their goals.  One who knows one’s own mind, can never be distracted from their mission nor can they be persuaded to do what they don’t want to do.

To put it another way, they always keep focusing on their target.  Such people take the bull by the horns, and with their commitment, hard work and dedication make their character a pearl of a great price. All the above mentioned tools are the basic ingredients to dream a success. The theory of “Mr. Nobody from Nowhere” may be understood more with some illustrations.

Mr. Abraham Lincoln faced many failures he tried until her was well past the age of 40 and tasted many fruits not suitable to his goals and dreams. Then, he was “Mr. Nobody from Nowhere”. Suddenly, an experience jumped into his life, aroused the sleeping genius within his heart and brain, and gifted the world with a great man.

Lincoln is most famous for leading America during Civil War. He is responsible for abolition of slavery system in America, and fought for civil rights. Today, Lincoln is often remembered for a short speech he gave at Gettysburg on 1st November, 1863. It’s called the Gettysburg Address. His self-belief, self-designed goals and powerful actions got converted into reality when he became the president of America in 1861. It’s a known fact that emotion of love is closely akin to the state of mind known as self-belief, and love comes very close to translating one’s thoughts impulses into their spiritual equivalent.

“You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you can’t fool all the people all the time.”(Lincoln)

“Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.” (Lincoln)

Second illustration is of Mahatma Gandhi from India, and this man set one of the most astounding examples of converting thought impulses into reality through their wishful realistic vision, burning desires and planned actions. He wielded an amazing man potential power. He credited it out of his understanding of the principles of self-control, self-belief and self-disciplined, and his ability to transplant hem into the minds of 200 million people.

Once this great man was thrown out of a train in South Africa on account of racial discrimination, and this venomous humiliation ultimately forced him to return his country to fight for its freedom. Gandhi accomplished his ultimate goal of making India a free nation, through the influence of his amazing thought impulses. He accomplished the astounding feat of 200 million minds to coalesce and move in unison, as a single mind. As a result of his intelligent efforts and burning desire, India became an independent nation in 1947.

 ” Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever”. (Mahtma Gandhi)

The third illustration is also of a person who always used to think big. In the mid 20th century, Martin Luther King, through his deep faith in his belief in human rights and dignity for everyone, led men and women of all races, religions and beliefs to join his struggle for civil rights. His dream that people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but the content of their character has not been fully realized, but his work and death have led to significant in civil right, and an impetus to continue their fight for their achievement.

 “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. The true neighbor will risk his position, his prestige and even his life for the welfare of others.” (Martin Luther King)

 The next illustration of APJ Kalam, a great scientist, a thinker and a good human being. He used to distribute newspapers as the financial position of his family was not good.  His initial dream was to become a fighter pilot, but he failed to qualify for the Indian Air Force. He was blessed with thirst of knowledge and always eager to learn new things. One of his first projects he worked on was to design a helicopter for Indian Army. His wisdom, dream and enthusiasm brought a good deal of fold progress in space research program and contributed excellent services to India in space science technology. Under his amazing leadership, India was able to develop its missile technology. 

.Kalam is also known as “Missile Man” of modern India.  In 2002 he was elected unopposed President of India.  He will always be remembered by every indian for his remarkable and marvellous contributions with regard to missile and rocket technology.  He was very popular among children for his motivational teachings, and he spent last moments of his life with the students of  IIM (Shilong, India).

“All birds find shelter during a rain, but Eagle avoids rain by flying above the clouds.” (APJ Kalam)

“All of us do not have equal talent, but all of us equal opportunity to develop our talents.” (APJ Kalam)

Steve Jobs, next illustration, American businessman and technology visionary who is best known as co-founder and Chairman of Apple Inc. Steve Jobs’s youth was riddled with frustrations over formal schooling. Jobs was a college dropped out student because of financial conditions of his family, and then learned Calligraphy.  Once he was removed from his own company for his innovative ideas, and joined again the same company, but this time with more clear goals, vision and dreams.  As a result of his hard work, dedication and innovative ideas, he made the surrounding situation to completely turn around.

“You can’t connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that all the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma whatever, This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.” (Steve Jobs)

Conclusion:  Realistic wishful dreams, burning desires, positive mindset, self-belief, determination, hard work, commitment, proper planning and intelligent efforts are the basic constituents and vital tools  of success. Application of these basic tools and elements in the right directions transform a man from “MR.NOBODY FROM NOWHERE” TO “MR. EVERYBODY FROM EVERYWHERE

                                                             By Kishan Singh Negi

                                                        ( Writer, Reader, Blogger, Thinker)

Is My Heart Wandering?

Posted: April 20, 2016 in Uncategorized

Sea is blue, calm and cool 

Silent but very deep,

I have miles to swim

Before I wish to sleep

To actualize my dreams

I have desires to keep

Before the dawn smiles

My heart begins to beep

Little love sparrow chirps

And flying high to peep

When the sun goes to set

My heartbeats begin to flip

wandering on sea-shore

Waiting for a love ship

Thoughts in heart yearning

For love to fall into deep

Sea is blue and lovely

Sea waves sing love rhymes

Making my heart to sleep

Sea is blue, calm and cool

Silent but very deep,

I have miles to swim

Before I wish to sleep

 

(Kishan Singh Negi)

(Writer, Reader, Blogger, Thinker)


Readers have a voracious appetite for juicy contents but my sole intention is not to serve new recipes for a different taste but to share with you how my soul defines theme of a success. All the persons are borne to win. Then why only few of them are winners. Successful people create realistic situations with positive energy and unsuccessful people make unrealistic situations with negative thoughts. In this article, main focuses has been made on the concepts of success and how it exists in our life.

Success Chases Only Successful People:

It is professionally and scientifically proven that the concept of success is a fruit for successful people only, which is an amazing gift for them of their positive attitude, burning desires, honest and ceaseless efforts, diligent planning and intelligent actions in the right directions.

Over the years, we have learnt through the vast experience of successful people that success exists on  only that have ardent and burning desires to achieve it. It means success chases those people that have self-designed goals to have it.   .

 Many people make tremendous efforts in this direction but still success is not visible to their dreams.  Do you really think success is running faster than you? Certainly not. Success is always waiting for you to reach there and grab it. Hence we may say that success chases only successful people.

Desire for success should be greater than fear of failure:

In this article we will discuss how success is roaming around you and you have to keep your eyes opened to grab the opportunity to achieve it. You may dream a beautiful success in your life but simultaneously there is always a fear of failure also. Therefore, your desire for success needs to be greater than your fear of failure in order to take desired shapes.

Team Work Performs Tremendously Under Dynamic Leadership:

Do you know that coming together is a beginning, keeping together is a progress and working together is a success. Organizational goals are achieved when there is a team work led by a leader from the front. Successful people always focus on their goals and not on the success because when the desired goals are achieved, success is bound to be there. The success script of MICROSOFT AND FACEBOOk has been written by a successful team work under the dynamic leadership of BILL GATES AND MARK ZUCKERNB. Because they knew that once their self-designed goals are achieved, success will be theirs and hence laid a strong foundation for next team and new leadership

Do You Chase Success Or Success Chases You:

Hi friends! Here I am again with a new idea whether to chase success OR let the success chase you. Never did I read in any book about this. Have you read? Please let me know. Rarely this concept might have become a hot topic among your friends with your entire academic and professional career. Have you ever thought of chasing or running after the success, an unseen riddle yet to be solved?

Today we will try a bit to solve this unseen riddle and discuss some of the major facts which help you reach your targeted goals thus making some room for success to welcome you. My main focus here will be how success chases you during your entire journey of accomplishment of your desired results. Readers have a voracious appetite for juicy contents but my sole intention is not to serve new recipes for a different taste but to share with you how my soul defines theme of a success.

How Ignorance and Confidence test your patience:

Ignorance and confidence are two things you require to taste success. Ignorance does not mean lack of knowledge but ignorance of the fact that how long is the journey. And then comes your confidence to travel this long a journey. Though the journey is long to be travelled but as soon as your journey is complete, success is just waiting for you. Ignorance and confidence boost you to keep moving forward towards your destination as success is curious to know about the mystery of your journey.

Be a successful human being rather than becoming a successful person:

Be all the rich men successful people? Some of you may think “YES”. But this is always not true. May be they must have achieved everything they desired but still are not a successful person. Do you know why? Because their main motive was to be a rich person rather than being a good human being, And many of them might have ended their journey at that level.

You may not be a complete successful person without being a good human being. A successful always carries with him values of a good human being. Then only they are able to sustain their growth and success for a long time. Because, we all are born as human being and will also die one day as human being only.

Hard Work, Dedication and Determination-Basic Tools of Success:

What are other tools to dream a success? Hard work, dedication and determination are other basic tools to achieve success. You must develop the habit of hard work, dedication for your passion and determination to reach your goals. These tools will help you reach your destination rather chasing it. Many people spend their entire journey to become successful but fail to achieve their goals, because they lacked hard work, dedication and determination.

Happiness and Enthusiasm Strengthen Your Appetite For Success:

Happiness is the key to success, success is not the key to happiness. Happiness must always exist on your way of success. Success is an endless process which goes from failure of failure. It is an enthusiasm and happiness which takes failure to success at one point of time. You always need to create a happy and enthusiastic environment around you which will further strengthen your appetite for positive attitude and right approach.

Are You Ending Your Journey Chasing The Success: If yes, please change the trend:

Desire and motivation are another tools which play a very significant role in your life to accomplish your dream goals. You must have some ardent desire for your goals and motivation assist you fulfill those goals. Before enjoying the taste of fruits of your hard work, you need to follow certain rules of game which will enable you end your journey of success rather end your journey chasing the success. The more you run for it, the more it out of your range, the less you are worried about it, the more it is curious about you and the more you talk of it the less it knows about your dream.

Lay A Strong Foundation With Bricks Thrown By Others:

A successful person lays a strong foundation of the bricks which have been thrown on him by others. He has to cross many hurdles and impediments on his success journey which ultimately make him a strong and iron man always moving forward to on his aim.

The strong foundation laid by him may be a road map for his next generation crying not for the success but focusing on achieving the desired goals.

How High You Bounce When You Hit The Bottom?

Success is how high you bounce when you hit the bottom which measures your journey from failure to success. The higher you bounce, the higher are the success. The difference between success and failure is neither the lack of strength nor the lack of knowledge but rather lack of will. Your strength and knowledge are the helping instruments on your way to success but it is only your strong will which helps you reach your destination.

Dream High – Achieve High:

Higher is the dream; higher is the achievement. You must have big dreams in your life. Otherwise you may be hired to dream for someone else. In my opinion, successful people are those who dream for themselves and not dream for others. But now the question arises how your dreams may come true. Successful do not believe on dreams which are borrowed from others. They create their own dreams and then focus on them. They always believe in learning from the failures of others and avoiding those mistakes.

Design Your Life Plan:

Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events and small minds discuss people. No one can make you feel an inferior without your consent. Live as if you were to die tomorrow and learn as if you were to live forever. Once you learn the rules of the game; you learn how to play better than others. This is you who have to design a life plan for you. Lest you should fall into someone’s plan that might have designed for your failure. Right approach, right mental attitude and right plan are the supporting elements of a successful person. No one can teach you the key to success but many can teach you the key to failure. So design a better plan for better success.

Warren Buffet, one of the most successful persons, rightly says Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago”.

It takes many years to build an empire and only few minutes to ruin it. Success is afraid of failure and failure is afraid of winning

Martin Luther King has said “If you can not fly then run, if you can not run then walk, if you can not walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward”.

Dare To Face Risk And Success Will Be Yours:

Successful people always dare to face risks while unsuccessful people dare not to face it. In this context, Mark Zuckerberg, owner of FACEBOOK, rightly says “The biggest risk is not taking any risk. In a world that is changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risk”.

Obviously if you want to taste success, you first must learn to take risk. Majority of the people give ideas, some of them discuss them and only very few of them execute them and write a success story.

CONCLUSION:

Successful people write a successful script after a successful journey. They know how to sustain it when on the peak and how to  it grab it again when at the bottom.  Since they understand the gravity of the situation, always focus on their self-designed goals..  Therefore, success is made for the successful people that always discuss  success.  Failure is made for unsuccessful people who always discuss failure.

Friends did you like this article, please let me know because your suggestion and love will inspire me to share more ideas with you. Again next time with some new idea.

 Kishan Singh Negi

(Writer, Reader, Blogger, Thinker & Motivator)

10 Symptoms Of A Boring Wife

Posted: April 12, 2016 in Uncategorized

“Marriage is that institution which we all have to attend at a certain point in time.”

There may be many signs of a boring wife that might have been faced by many of husbands, and are struggling a lot to get rid of those unpleasant situations. Here, I will highlight only those that are responsible for making husbands life a hell, inferno, mawkish and insipid (unsavory). These are:

1) Reluctant during sex-time: 

She is corpse in the bedroom, never initiates. You might have to beg for it. She is missing passionate lovemaking, hence making room for pillow barricade between partners. Also, conservative for sex love, and may turn her partner into premature ejaculatory. Also, she is not adventurous about sex chat. Nothing is more dreadful to her rather than the sex, which may ruin a happy married life. Such a wife needs to know the attraction of concupiscence

Volcano may bubble up any time. However, you may put hard efforts into pleasing her but all in vain. A real issue that can’t be dismissed by her anecdotal ideas what she thinks her husband likes. She may not apologies for not giving an optimistic and altruistic response. If you express your desires for it, they are discouraged and trivialize. If you know your partner is bored, you may salvage your relationship after an analytic study of problem. However, if boredom creeps in unchecked, it will spoil your married life. 

Husband need to lavish her with praise and encouragement and you eventually have a mutually satisfying sex-life. She may behave scurrilously if she is forced to have sex against her will. Husband tends to become a moron and married life a morbid with this type of partner.

 2) Unwilling To Try something New In The Kitchen:

There is a saying that the only way to go to man’s heart is through his stomach. Every husband expects his partner to serve him tasty, delicious, yummy and luscious food items. Man loves a wife who is good at cooking. No doubt, your partner is passionate about kitchen and an expert cook, but she is more inclined to try out only traditional routine recipes.

You may want her to try out some new trends and experience new recipes, but she does not care for your feelings. She keeps herself confined to the old traditional routine of kitchen. She serves you very tasty and hygienic food in dinner, but your desire for new taste or trendy food is never satisfied. Then comes a situation when you go out with your friends for such change. She should make efforts in cooking meals that her partner loves. When she satisfies his taste buds, he will automatically be at peace and ease. Maybe she is not a great cook, but let that not deter her from cooking scrumptious meals. Instead of eating out on weekends, stay home try something new for your husband in lunch and dinner. He will appreciate the amount of efforts made by his wife which is a boost to their married life.

3) Never Seen In a Romantic Mood:

You are married now and have bigger responsibilities, does not necessarily mean you will forget love spark and romance. But, a boring wife lacks the qualities of a coquette. Any time she feels the weather is in romantic mood, wife may go out with her spouse on romantic date, lunch or latest movie or dinner, but a boring wife Influence of a quality date and quality time stays longer.

Husband will always thank her for that awesome date and romantic moment. Time for romanticism disappears from their married life and the couple fails to create space for erotic love, and is deprived to real excitement for love.

4) Unwilling To Accept The Concept of Communication and Compromise:

A situation may arise when wife wishes to flirt with her husband, but fails in this attempts due to proper application of communication skills. She needs to communicate her feelings with her partner about their family issues. Every husband feels better when his wife is ready to communicate and negotiate to find out a solution, which is acceptable to both. When husband returns home after a tiring official tour, he may be in a romantic mood, but wife either neglects it or not able to communicate with him. She needs to compromise with her husband to resolve certain delicate family issues in a very amicable manner.

Husband flunks in his efforts for lovemaking. This non- physical quality is more important. It makes for a much longer, happier, more fulfilling relationship. However, by applying proper communication, under such circumstances, by a boring wife, the situation may be overcome to convert unpleasant moments into joyful ones.

5) Not Much A Caring And Loving Partner:

Every man likes a wife who cares and loves her partner. Being a caring wife, she needs to take some pain to care for his wishes and talk to him to resolve the issues between them which shows a sign of positive attitude at her end. Needs to be a good listener for her partner’s problems and find the way out for smooth and happy married life. No marriage can weather the storms of the years if each spouse does not learn to give preferences to his or her partner’s desires from time to time.

Every man is bored with a wife who is not ready to take a responsibility on her shoulder to spend quality time. Nor does she get attracted by her husband’s actions for caring him. This is because she lacks sense of humor and communication skills. Such wife plays the game of giddy goat, thus making the married life a gloomy and melancholy.

6) Lacking Fun And Sense Of Humor:

Today every husband feels better when her partner is a funny one and has some sense of humor. She must know how to find out and enjoy funny moments out of busy life so that theirs married life may be stress free and joyful. A boring wife is literally not found of a funny and jolly nature, and is not fond of applying her sense of humor to have some funny time with her partner. As a result, life of the couple becomes a hell.

7) Not A Best Mom And Guide:

Every husband likes a wife who loves and cares for him. However, he wants her to be a loving and caring mother of their kids and work hard in their character building. When husband is out on official or business tour, wife is not capable of handling her children, nor is able to assist them in their home work.

A woman who fails to cultivate into her children family and social values, is not fit to be the best mom and guide.  She is responsible to nurture and groom them from childhood to lay strong foundation for their bright future

8) Lacks Quality of Being A Good Host:

A boring wife does not like her husband to invite his friends on weekends for small dinner and drink party nor is she willing to join such parties outside. She explains many reasons to justify her stand and has not even a single point for not being a good host. A boring wife always finds it a disaster and affliction to socialize with others that are signs of her ineptitude and turbidity. This is because she lacks sense of humor and communication skills. Such wife plays the game of giddy goat, thus making the married life a gloomy and melancholy.

She adopts an indifferent attitude towards such type of social and family gatherings, which, later on, is proven as a bane for her partner. She hardly takes active part in such events, and makes every effort to prevent her husband from joining and arranging such friendly gatherings. Then a day comes when her partner is sidelined by his friends and colleagues. Today majority of husbands is afraid of spending entire life with this type of boring life partner.

9) Indifferent Attitude for Elderly Members:

If any wife dares not to respect the elder members in family and always waits for one or the other opportunity to hurt their sentiments, then married life does not take much time to turn into turmoil. Her ego and arrogance don’t let her create positive energy to make married life a heaven. This indifferent attitude makes her a boring partner which no husband is easily happy to digest.

10) Not Willing To Accept Changing Trends Of Modern Life:

Today with the development of modern science and technology, phenomena of changing trends has already taken place in every part of life. But a wife that is not willing to keep pace with such a change, is bound to be a boring wife. Moreover, she is not a woman who looks towards life with positive attitude and positive energy. She has no plans to convert her burning desires into reality. Husband finds it very difficult to make future plans for his family with a woman who always has indifferent attitude towards life.

CONCLUSION: If a wife is ready to make no room for the negative points of a boring wife as highlighted above, she may become an ideal wife for her husband and family. Then, their destiny may pour into their life all happiness they wish, and the couple will be able to stop misfortunes and bad luck from hovering over them with black shadows of failures. For me, the essence of an ideal married life is love and be loved.

NOTE: All the points highlighted  above are writer’s own ideas.

Kishan Singh Negi

Writer, Reader, Thinker, Blogger and Motivator